It’s SO frustrating to set out with good intentions for your bookkeeping every month, telling yourself “THIS is the month I catch up,” only to have your attention pulled back to all the other things, which feel just as important in themselves: Programming, services,...
Boundaries At Work
Do you have unreasonable expectations of others?
Just so you know: YES, your expectations of other people ARE valid...sometimes. Other people might not like your expectations of them and some relationships may not stand the test when you express what you really want. But would you rather live knowing you stood your...
Boundaries + Creating Safe Spaces for Others
The other day I was called out for not actively participating in a virtual group activity, and it made me feel like crap.I was going to add this piece to the end of this blog entry, but it bears too much importance to leave to the end: In this article I talk about...
It won’t get better. Set that boundary now.
TW: Homophobia; AIDS mentioned Many years ago I was doing some field work over a few days with a coworker who was an older male. It seemed sensible that we would take one vehicle to the place we were conducting the work, and even though my gut-reaction to sharing a...