It won’t get better. Set that boundary now.
TW: Homophobia; AIDS mentioned Many years ago I was doing some field work over a few days with a coworker who was an older male. It seemed sensible that we would take one vehicle to the place we were conducting the work, and even though my gut-reaction to sharing a ride with him was palpably ominous, I, being one who didn’t want to cause conflict, agreed to the ride-sharing. Cue Julia Roberts’...
EXERCISE: What Will Happen If You Let Yourself…BE Yourself?
Photo credit: Photo by Eye for Ebony on Unsplash What will you say “yes” to when you weren’t worried about how other people judged your choices? What job or business would you have? Or would you take some time off and gift yourself time to figure out what’s next? What would you let your kids do? What would you eat, drink and enjoy? What will you say “no” to if you weren’t worried about how...